Who told you that you were supposed to agree with someone else’s preference frames, gender identity, or romantic inclinations?

Do you ever try to walk with your neighbors’ legs? No? What if you did? Do you think you would be entitled to complain because every time you did this, you failed to travel?

Not only that, but did you ever stop to realize that your labels actually don’t exist and many of the uses to which you put them were invented in order to blind you into fear and hatred? Did you realize those uses attack your intelligence in order to essentially use it as a breeding ground?

I mean, there’s actually no such thing as straight, or gay. At all. The actual fact is that people are beyond all categories. Descriptions have to do with language, not reality. Minds are the twilight zone between words and the real. A relationship has no label until someone slaps one on it. And even then? It has no label.

The reason you have categories is convenience; they are not supposed to make you stupid — which is what happens if you believe them.