https://medium.com/ill-ixi-lli/not-yet-ready-for-fatherhood-7e913deec685

Beyond my 40’s I am finally starting to feel that some of the human assets that are prerequisites for fatherhood have developed to a degree that they might be sufficient to attempt such a task, a task rendered nearly impossible by my history and culture. But what about when I actually became a father? What about back then?