The whole of you is warm, vibrant, impossibly sophisticated self-contained instance of the universe. But stop and realize this: it is wrapped around a hole. Literally. And without that hole, there is no you. Humans are demonstrably interested in most of each other’s ‘entrances and exits’ in the strangest variety of ways — both phobic and philic. To make new lives we must entangle… nothings. Think about it.