Someone posted the following quote:

“People don’t change until staying the same is more painful than changing.” — Sebastian Enges

Typical nonsense words. First, there’s no such thing as ‘people’ in the sense used here. It’s a meme fiction. And lethally misguided.

Secondly, to whatever degree this may be accurate, it is primarily accurate of ‘individuals’. People who have become cognitively, emotionally and relationally isolated—whether or not they are surrounded by others.

We moderns have become extremely confused about what it is or can be to be human, and a primary cause of this is the ridiculous concept of ‘the individual’, a strange and agonizing state completely unnatural to our species, and imposed by the late-stage metastatic diseases of colonization, relationship-fracking, modernity, industry, war and prisoneering.

‘People’ do not exist in this way, what exists are prisoners. And these are largely absent in relation… with themselves and others.

Humans in vital communal relation change fluidly, they are curious, seek to develop greater relational and personal awareness, employ a broad range of unique skills, and are tropic to relational intimacy, which inclines them to fluid and regular transformation.