https://www.quora.com/Is-it-true-that-snipers-are-the-most-feared-soldiers-on-the-battlefield/answer/Daniel-Holland-7?srid=uUQ8

The most powerful thing in »nearly any situation… is communication. And the communicator? This is the one with the actual power. On the other hand, there are no ‘general’ answers, and the idea that there are, is one of the deadliest errors in our common thought, communication, expectation, comparison… and decision-making.

Life and relationships are specific to situations and participants.

There are, then, no such things as ‘the best answers’ to general questions.