Personally, I find women who do not present themselves as sexual objects far more enticing than those who engage in the fashions and fetishizations of the moment. In fact, talent… skill, intelligence… grace… subtlety… these cannot be mimicked or acquired by purchase. You cannot brush them on from a compact or reveal more of them in a bikini. My point is this: there is no facade that surpasses an actualized woman who has largely escaped or ignored the role-scripting of culture and fashion and is simply herself; alive, creative, endearing, provocative, and exquisite.