That sacred impossibility that flows forth from us like the nectar of our souls when we are in love — impelling us to acts of adoration and creativity ordinarily inaccessible… is proof… that we are conserving relational assets and abilities whose significance and power exceed our own comprehension. In fact, these potentials within us are so dynamically potent that we are rightfully afraid to bring them forth unless a pre-existing context of mutual adoration and exstasis has been established…