The whole of you is warm, vibrant, impossibly sophisticated self-contained instance of the universe. But stop and realize this: it is wrapped around a hole. Literally. And without that hole, there is no you. Humans are demonstrably interested in most of each other’s ‘entrances and exits’ in the strangest variety of ways, both phobic and philic. To make new lives you must entangle… nothings. Think about it.