002906

It’s a way we cannot live without, but can survive endless specific little deprivations of.

002907

“By defecting from himself, and embarking on self-destruction, he was overtly defecting from the group-family, all the while pretending to be doing something else. He didn’t enjoy being shown this. In fact, it enraged him. He envisioned self-destruction as...

002908

In pushing hands, one learns to change in various ways in relation with the partner. With modestly advanced partners, the attempt to employ force will result in disaster. Possibly even injury. The ‘reason’ is that the production of force is expensive, and...

002909

Life as it is lived is situational. It’s relational. There’s openness for the possibilities beyond the ‘ordinary’ or expected. But some of that space lies in dimensions we ordinarily dismiss, and thus defect from. What I mean is...

002910

I am reminded of scientists trying to ‘explain’ synesthesia — an experience nearly none of them have. Meanwhile, the people having the actual experience … while they may tend to adopt common ‘explanations’, are acutely aware that their...